Decisions are not about right or wrong; they are about growth. Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose, but we always learn. Sometimes decisions leave bruises, but if they don't kill us - well, you know the rest.

What’s in your control:
- What you do?
- What you say?
- What you think?

What isn’t in your control:
- What other people do?
- What other people say?
- What other people think?

I think letting go of control takes a lot less energy and effort than trying to control everything. This will also allow you to be prepared for any outcome and spend more time being present, which is the only place we can fully live our lives.