You did not choose your:
1. Birthplace
2. Skin colour
3. Birth parents
4. Birth gender
5. Birth language
6. Birth name
7. Ethnicity
8. Born abilities

You can always choose to be:
1. Honest
2. Generous
3. Kind
4. Grateful
5. Respectful
6. Optimistic
7. Humble
8. Self-aware
9. Faithful
10. Happy