You did not choose your:
1. Birthplace
2. Skin colour
3. Birth parents
4. Birth gender
5. Birth language
6. Birth name
7. Ethnicity
8. Born abilities

You can choose to be:
1. Humble and kind
2. Generous
3. Gracefully honest
4. Grateful
5. Respectful
6. Optimistic
7. Unselfish
8. Self-aware