progress

Progress is not linear

Illustration: Liz Fossilien ©

Progress is not always visible on a day-to-day basis; it becomes evident only over time. Here’s how you might notice your growth:

  1. You are less reactive to drama and now choose your battles wisely.

  2. Your circle of friends is becoming smaller but stronger—prioritising quality over quantity. You are surrounding yourself with people who uplift you rather than drag you down.

  3. You are embracing discomfort, whether it’s regularly going to the gym, learning a new skill, or having tough conversations with yourself.

  4. You are saying no more often. Recognising that people-pleasing is unhealthy, you now prioritise your time and energy as the valuable resources they are.

  5. You are investing in yourself through books, courses, therapy, and other means. You understand that the best investment is in your own growth.

Keep pushing and keep growing as I think the best version of you is still ahead.


Try something new

The pandemic probably accelerated innovation various fields as the unusual circumstances have allowed for a willingness to experiment and take risks without fear of failure. During or after a significant global incident, people are more open to trying new things and are given the freedom to fail, which can change their attitudes towards taking risks. Although human beings tend to stick to routine, which can result in incremental improvements, it is not conducive to exponential progress or thinking outside the box. I think to make new discoveries, one needs to break out of our routines.

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.”
— Albert Einstein