Women are often socialised to prioritise agreeableness and conflict avoidance, which makes the experience of being disliked particularly challenging, especially in high-pressure leadership roles. Research shows that women in leadership positions are more likely to face negative reactions when asserting authority or making unpopular decisions. A study from the Harvard Business Review found that women leaders are disproportionately criticised for behaviours that are seen as acceptable in their male counterparts. I think women who advocate for kindness and justice must also be willing to confront the challenges of standing firm in their values, even when it means facing opposition, retaliation, or bullying. And this aligns with findings from the Korn Ferry Institute, which suggests that women leaders often face a “double bind,” where they are expected to be both empathetic and assertive, a combination that can be difficult to balance in environments where these traits are not equally valued.
Don't hold back
Most people crave simplicity, and beyond simplicity is complexity. I’m interested in the simplicity on the other side of complexity. There’s an inextricable link between leadership and communication because those who lead are those who clearly speak about what they believe. I think communication is the most important skill in the world, and simple communication skills should be taught in schools. Communication is both words and emotions but what’s really powerful, are words loaded with emotion. Words filled with emotion can move nations, they can help people change directions and establish good or bad ideology. The stronger and wiser you become, the more caring you become shows up in your language and manner of communication. Would you like some help with that? Contact me via e-mail and we can arrange a meeting in person or online.