A mindset is like a fishing rod, it’s a way to maneuverer our lives to orientate ourselves towards success and good outcomes. The decision making process is making choices by identifying a decision, gathering information, and assessing alternative resolutions. Using a step-by-step decision-making process can help you make more deliberate, thoughtful decisions by organising relevant information and defining alternatives. I think that one of the biggest problems we are having in the world today is that people require simple answers to complicated questions. Therefore, it’s important not to make decisions today that you wouldn’t take again tomorrow.
No one likes us
Where do your beliefs and opinions come from?
People need to process information quickly to protect themselves from harm. Most people believe that their opinions are based on years of experience and objective analysis of the information they have available. Everyone thinks they are rational, logical, and impartial. We are susceptible to confirmation bias as many factors of which people are unaware can influence our information processing. Humans are better able to rationally process information, giving equal weight to multiple viewpoints, if they are emotionally distant from the issue. Another reason people show confirmation bias is to protect their self-esteem.
Here are some examples of confirmation bias:
· Not seeking out objective facts
· Interpreting information to support your existing belief
· Only remembering details that uphold your belief
· Ignoring information that challenges your belief
Humans are bombarded with information in the social world and cannot possibly take the time to carefully process each piece of information to form an unbiased conclusion. I think that human decision making and information processing is often biased because people want to feel that they are intelligent. When informationarrives that suggests one holds an inaccurate belief or made a poor decision this may make one feel he’s lacking intelligence, therefore, we tend to listen only to the information that confirms our preconceptions.
The Sun is a pretty big star
Life is not about darkness or light, rather its about finding the the brightest star within your unconscious and creating a galaxy. I think everyone is made up of light, we simply need to find our best way to shine. When your words and actions match, people know they can trust you, so there is o need to make false promises.
Sales people are not criminals and are usually not doing anything sneaky. Sales is a method used to align clients and customers to goods and services. The complex sale has many different stakeholders involved in the decision making process, on the other hand, the simple sale is when selling to an individual decision maker. As a sales person we must understand that it’s not a straight line from where we are to what we want. Most sales people are trained in the “old fashioned” way moving from presentation > demo > proposal > negotiation > close. How many people want to buy that way? We as individuals do not buy that way, we look at reviews and recommendations from our social circle.
Today, we are living in a high stimulus world! Everyone appears to be stimulus rich and context poor. I think competence is dependent on context and ask myself on a daily basis - How can I add value and become tremendously impactful? Do you really care about your customers? What you are selling can be anything and the value proposition can be pretty subjective. Contact me via e-mail to arrange a meeting or workshop, and learn about why you should show up prepared and the benefits of demonstrating authenticity.